Gosh, don't you wish life came with some type of simple rule book?? Sometimes, when things are really not going my way, I like to really pause and take about 5 steps back. I have recently done this regarding one of my relationships. When you start to see more negative than positive in the situation, I think that's when you know A.) something is wrong, and B.) you should probably re-evaluate the situation. I spoke to a lovely elder at my church, she not only helped bring clarity to my situation, she also gave me some wonderful insight. So the point of this blog is to remind you that if you know and love Jesus, then you know the person you marry should exude Jesus's light in everything they do. They should live and breathe Christ. They should be the reason you try to strengthen your very own relationship with your personal savior. I'm no relationship expert, that's for sure. But I know that if it isn't bringing you happiness and joy, and if it isn't pleasing to Christ, then it's probably NOT what is best for you.
In Peace and Love always,
Becky
